Counseling for Auto-Accident Recovery and Sudden-Event Trauma
Serving clients in-person in Asheville, NC and online across North Carolina.
After an accident, even once the body has healed, the nervous system can remain on high alert. You may find yourself replaying the event, avoiding driving, or feeling anxious or detached. These reactions are normal, but they don’t have to be permanent.
You might be experiencing:
Difficulty sleeping or concentrating
Avoidance of driving
Feelings of overwhelm
Fear or tension while driving
Flashbacks or intrusive memories
Fatigue or feeling “shut down”
Physical symptoms without clear cause
Feeling out of your body
Shame around still experiencing fear and symptoms when everyone else seems to be over it already.
Myth: There must be something wrong with me because everyone else seems to be fine.
Reality: Having symptoms of PTSD following an accident or sudden event is common. In fact, 70% of individuals following auto-accidents still have some symptoms of trauma 8 months following the event. Experiencing shame or self-judgment around struggling to recover following an accident is also more common than you might think.
Truth: The experience you're having is not a reflection of some personal weakness. It’s your body trying to complete a survival response that it did not have the time to complete. This survival response was wired-in to the body millions of years ago in order to help you survive and thrive, but can be thwarted by the context of our fast-paced modern world. When a survival response (fight, flight, freeze) gets thwarted, that survival energy has to go somewhere, and it ends up getting stored in the body in the form of post-traumatic stress symptoms.
The good news is that with guidance, you can learn to release this pent-up energy in your nervous system and return to a state of regulated calm and confidence. The trauma can be processed.
My Approach
There are 3 notable dimensions to trauma: physical (somatic) symptoms (racing heart, out of breath, feeling constricted or trapped), cognitive symptoms (distressing thoughts, fears, rumination), and memory-processing symptoms (intrusive memories, nightmares, etc.)
My approach aims to address each of these three dimensions by:
Utilizing gentle, somatic therapy techniques to unwind and process the unresolved flight/flight response in the body
Utilizing memory reconsolidating techniques (such as the Restructuring Traumatic Memory Protocol) to restructure and reprocess painful and confusing memories
Utilizing cognitive therapy (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) to help you get a sense of more space, ease, and acceptance around distressing thoughts and fears
My goal for you: I want to see you regain your freedom and your confidence, so that you can live the life that you want to live without undue stress.
My pledge to you: We will work at a pace that is right for you, which means I won’t ask you to re-experience, explain, or talk about events that you don’t want to revisit until you are actually ready to process them in a productive way.
Case Study: John’s* Story
John came in for treatment following an auto-accident involving him and his partner and another vehicle. John was experiencing symptoms consistent with PTSD: intrusive thoughts, avoidance of driving, nightmares, unexplained sweating and shortness of breath. The hardest thing for him was that he was scared to drive. Not only did it feel like he had lost his freedom, but he felt shame around the fact that his partner was seemingly just fine after the incident.
Therapy began by helping John understand how common his experience actually is. This helped him to feel a little less shame around his healing and to accept his experience as part of his body’s instinctual response to save his life. I didn’t ask John to recount any of the details of the event for the first few sessions, that only leads to more nervous system activation and can be re-traumatizing if you’re not ready for it. Instead John began by connecting to something called internal-resources: states of nervous-system regulation in his body, mind and environment where his body was able to naturally begin the process of discharging excess survival energy and returning to a state of integration.
After a couple of sessions, John was able to access states of comfort in session and began to process the actual event. We didn’t go through it chronologically, but started in reverse, beginning with the first moments of safety John experienced after the event and helping John’s body to more deeply access and process the understanding that “I survived.”
John was beginning to gather confidence in his ability to utilize the tools and to regulate his own nervous system. We began to work with other phases of the incident, utilizing memory-reconsolidating techniques and somatic therapy techniques to help John re-pattern his experience and meaning of the event. John was beginning to drive at this point with fewer symptoms of distress, and was experiencing greater relief and ease during his every-day life.
In addition to the work in session, John began utilizing some tools outside of session in order to better help manage the stress of his everyday life and busy work-schedule. This helped John to be in a more regulated state more of the time, allowing him to be in a better place to heal and recover.
In the seventh session John came in excited. He was happy to announce that he had driven further than he had driven since the incident without any fear or second-guessing himself. This was a big step in John’s recovery, and we celebrated it together and built off of the momentum.
The last few sessions focussed on creating new meanings, and cleaning up some of the unprocessed dimensions of the event. Over the course of 10 sessions of therapy. John had gone from being unable to speak about the incident without becoming anxious and emotional to confidently driving again. More significantly, John felt like he had reclaimed his freedom: freedom to drive and to travel, and freedom from his fears.
*Name has been changed to maintain confidentiality
Collaboration
I collaborate with attorneys to support clients’ emotional recovery after accidents. My process is trauma-informed, professional, and fully HIPAA-compliant. Documentation can be provided upon client consent.
Resources
Crash Course: A Self-Healing Guide to Auto Accident Trauma and Recovery by Diane Poole Heller, PhD (Book/Audio)
Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life: The New Acceptance and Commitment Therapy by Steven Hayes, PhD (Workbook)
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